Monday, October 13, 2008

New-found self-confidence

It's always fabulous to hear of the achievements clients of mine make.

I had a chat with an ex-client a couple of days ago. She came to me originally fearing taking steps forward with her life partly because of her own self-doubt and lack of confidence in herself. Yet she's now making brave decisions such as learning to swim after a life-time of fearing the water, and throwing a party she's been promising herself for months if not years that she hasn't previously had the courage or energy to organise. And she's even started a new relationship - you can see the resulting twinkle in her eyes for the first time in ages.

Many people I work with struggle with self-confidence and self-esteem either in a work or home setting or both. Their lack of confidence stops them from achieving many of the things they'd like to in life. Their own fears and self-doubt hold them back and prevent them from living life in all its fullness.

Yet when they begin to see the greatness within themselves, the choices that they have and learn the courage and motivation needed to take positive steps forward, their world begins to really open up.

How fantastic is that? To be able to do all the things we want to in life!

You know, there's an old saying that goes "It's not the things you do that you regret, but the things you don't do." How true that is.

So, if lack of confidence or belief in yourself is holding you back, then how about doing something about it today to change things? Read a book such as Susan Jeffers' excellent Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway or Paul McKenna's Instant Confidence. Or sign up for my online course How to Build Supreme Self-Confidence complete with simple, practical tips, techniques and resources so you can feel confident and in control.

And then, when you're feeling more confident, you, too, can do all those things you've been waiting for!

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